Looking for someone real, not into head games Im 41 and a father of two girls that are with me part time, I love being a dad. Im involved in my girls life, there ages are 8 and 9yr of age And they live with me part time. I am a maint Mgr. and have a lot going on but want a ladie in my life. Im a careing man and have a lot of passion and love to give to the right woman. Im not looking for a show girl, or one I have to support, or even a mom for my girls,they have one. Looking for a team player and my BF / soul mate,Romance,someone to hold and to be held by,some that is as happy staying in as they are to going out,enjoys candle lit dinners and sitting infront of a fire and cuddling or even having a good talk,Someone that also has a brain and can use it LOL.I no that seems like alot but after all thats why we are on here right? I in short want a real person someone as real as I am and is able to express there self and no Its not only ok but I am I Man that loves that, Nothing can b